There’s a quiet kind of grief that builds when you realize someone likes you just enough to keep you close, but not enough to let you in. It doesn’t arrive dramatically. It drips. It seeps in slowly, washing away your clarity until you can no longer tell the difference between affection and ambivalence. They don’t harm you outright. They just don’t feed you emotionally. And so you wither while convincing yourself that you’re full. We are so skilled at rationalizing absence. Especially when the idea of someone—the version we’ve created in our …
Say What You Need. Then Say It Again.
I didn’t grow up knowing how to ask for what I needed. I mastered silence instead—quick smiles, polite nods, and a library of guesses about what others wanted from me. That’s how I survived. And when I fell in love, I carried this skill like a shield, only to realize it was useless in the battlefield of intimacy. Most people aren’t afraid of rejection. They’re afraid of being seen in their raw, unedited form and still not being loved. That’s what makes saying what you need so terrifying. You’re not just making a request. You’re peeling your …
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You’re Not Superglue, Quit Clinging: A Bold Guide to Letting Go
It always starts the same way. You're lying in bed with your phone hovering inches from your face, backlit in ghostly blue, replaying that message thread like it’s a true crime documentary. Every emoji, every punctuation mark—suddenly a clue. Your mind, a CSI unit for emotional chaos. You tell yourself this is the last time. Then do it again tomorrow. Obsessive overthinking is the late-night snack no one talks about, and we keep going back like it might taste different this time. But it’s not the message or the missed call that’s the real …
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What Love Quietly Taught Me
It’s strange how the biggest lessons about love didn’t come with grand goodbyes or dramatic betrayals. They arrived in the quieter moments—the ordinary Tuesdays, the small hesitations, the truths I couldn’t ignore any longer. Love, as it turns out, isn’t the thing that saves you. It’s the thing that strips you bare until you learn how to save yourself. Looking back, everything I thought I knew about relationships had to be unlearned, piece by stubborn piece. Love Is Just the Beginning Falling in love is easy. Staying through the …
Dear Friend,
You look fine. That’s the part that annoys me most. You show up, smile politely, throw in a joke to deflect, and everyone thinks you’ve got it together. But I know you’re running on fumes. Not just physically. The kind of tired that makes your bones feel like concrete and your thoughts like traffic. You keep trying to out-hustle your own sadness, like maybe if you stay busy enough, the ache won’t catch up. But it always does. You’ve been dragging the weight of things that should’ve been released a long time ago. Old guilt, broken …
The Quiet Death of a Relationship
Relationships rarely explode. They dissolve, one quiet letdown at a time. You ask for support, and it doesn’t come. You bring up a concern, and it’s dismissed. You start expecting less, stop asking, stop hoping. Until one day, you realize the version of love you’re living is just a husk of what it was supposed to be. What’s dangerous isn’t the fights—it’s the slow acclimatization to disappointment. When neglect becomes normal, when loneliness is just part of the package. And then, when it finally falls apart, people are stunned. As if the …
Rediscovering Self-Love: A Journey Through Pain and Healing
I thought I had learned my lessons. I thought I knew better by now. Yet, when faced with the familiar storm of uncertainty and self-doubt, I found myself falling hard once again. It's as if the part of me I’ve been desperately trying to run away from has finally caught up. This time, it's here to stay. It's not uncommon for people to seek change after loss or moments of deep self-reflection. Some start going to the gym, some pick up new hobbies, some prioritize friendships, and others embark on self-discovery journeys to find inner peace and …
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Loss, Love & Hope
Accepting the fact that our parents are growing old and will need care is a hard pill to swallow. My parents and grandparents have always been perfectly fit and healthy. Yes, I could see the signs of aging but I chose to overlook them. I lost someone very close to me a few years ago. She couldn’t attend my wedding and really wanted to meet me and my husband. I would often tell her “I will come soon.. in a couple of months” and before I realized, months became years. When I heard the news of her demise, I was shocked, …