My Musings – Page 29 – Not your ordinary tales

Understanding Others: The Key to Resolving Conflicts

Ever noticed how people love to say "facts aren't feelings"? It's true, but here's the kicker: other people's feelings are facts to them. It's ironic how some folks spend ages trying to argue others out of their feelings. Like, seriously, has that ever actually worked? Not really. Accepting how someone feels is the first step to finding common ground or just moving on. I've learned that brushing off someone's feelings doesn't make them disappear. They're there, real and valid. So why waste energy trying to argue them away? It's like banging …

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Living Authentically: Embracing Your True Self

For many years, I struggled with what I now recognize as the "Good Girl Syndrome." It was easy for me to make unconventional choices in my career, following my heart and embracing the unconventional. However, when it came to my personal life and relationships, I found myself constantly grappling with societal expectations and the fear of disappointing others. I used to base my decisions on what others wanted, fearing that pursuing my own desires was selfish. But as time went on, I realized that living my life for others only left me feeling …

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Embracing Life’s Unexpected Beauty: My Journey with Foraged Passionfruit

Have you ever stumbled upon something unexpectedly beautiful in the most unlikely of places? That's precisely what happened to me and my husband, Hari, on a leisurely stroll through Avalahali Forrest trail. Amidst the lush greenery, we spotted a curious fruit resembling a miniature passion fruit. Little did we know, it was a variety called Passiflora foetida, aptly named Stinking Passionflower. Excited by our find, I couldn't resist keeping the fruit in my pocket for safekeeping. However, by the time we reached home, it had turned into a …

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What makes your life meaningful?

This question by our trek leader, hit us hard leaving us speechless. Thankfully, Tushar Uncle helped us grasp its depth, but it still lingered in my mind. Simplifying it, I wonder: How can we live happier and more fulfilling lives? Following our passions has been my motto since childhood. I've made conscious choices like leaving secure but unfulfilling jobs during tough times, taking on demanding roles with less pay, and quitting a high-paying but soul-draining job when I needed cash. This mindset became second nature to me, shaping my …

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Trekking Adventures: Tales of a Solo Wanderer

Finding My Footing: A Rookie Trekker's Beginning Chance Encounters and Unexpected Paths During my solo escapade in Kashmir, I stumbled upon a group of adventure enthusiasts gearing up for the Tarsar Marsar Trek. It was eye-opening to witness ordinary people willingly embarking on multi-day treks with heavy backpacks, all for the sheer joy of it. Until then, I’d always associated mountaineering with conquering Everest, thinking it was reserved for superhuman types. Little did I know there were thousands of peaks to conquer, not just the …

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Navigating Emotions: Anger, Guilt, and the Road to Self-Forgiveness

When someone hurts us, anger becomes a protective shield, a way of demanding acknowledgment for the hurt we've endured. Apologies and amends make it easy to move forward, but if not, enter Shame, making us worry about how others perceive us. On the flip side, when we let ourselves down—breaking promises or letting boundaries slide—cue Guilt. It's that cringe-worthy feeling, like we're falling short of our own standards. It's not just about the action; it's about evaluating ourselves. Dealing with these emotions is like wrestling an …

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