There’s a voice in my head that’s convinced I’m the problem. It whispers that I’ll never change, that my past defines me, that I should overanalyze every mistake instead of doing something useful like, I don’t know, moving on. I used to listen to it. Now, I tell it to shut up. If you’re tired of being stuck in the same loop, it’s not the world—it’s you. But that’s good news. Because if you’re the problem, you’re also the solution. Here’s how to stop tripping over your own feet: 1. Stop Telling Yourself That Same Old Story If you keep …
Lonely in a Crowd, Lost in My Head
I’ve stood in packed rooms, shoulder to shoulder,Still felt the air grow colder and colder.People talk, but no one stays,Everyone lost in their own maze. No store sells friends—I checked the aisles,No discount rack for real-life smiles.Everyone's running, chasing more,Never sure what they’re running for. But kids? They’ve cracked the code,No fake hellos, no hearts on hold.They laugh, they cry, they take their shot,No second-guessing what they’ve got. Maybe that’s where we go wrong,Trying too hard, for way too long.Drowning in noise, …
Follow What Makes You Forget to Eat
At ten, quitting was simple. If something stopped being fun, I dropped it. No second-guessing. No pep talks. Just a clean break and on to the next thing. Then adulthood arrived with its exhausting rules. Push through. Be disciplined. Don't quit just because it’s hard. So I did. I stuck with things long after I stopped caring. Dragged dead weight. Powered through boredom, exhaustion, even the quiet voice that whispered, This isn’t for you. But what happens when you find something so consuming that quitting never crosses your …
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The Weight of Unspoken Things
There’s a strange heaviness in carrying something you can’t put into words. If you can’t articulate it—even to yourself—it lingers, shapeless, pressing down like an overstuffed bag you refuse to unpack. The weight doesn’t lessen until you sit with it, turn it over, and force it into sentences. And even then, the words aren’t for the world; they’re for you. Some things take longer to process. Some things take years. The real test isn’t how quickly you “get over” something—it’s whether you’ve done the work to move through it, rather than …
Shame is a Terrible Tour Guide
For years, I let certain memories play on a loop—same scenes, same regrets, same sinking feeling. It didn’t matter if I was in the middle of something good; the past had a way of showing up uninvited, like an old acquaintance who just won’t take the hint. At first, I thought revisiting those moments would somehow fix them. If I just replayed them enough, maybe I’d finally make sense of everything. Maybe I’d find a way to undo what couldn’t be undone. But all it did was keep me stuck. Shame is a terrible tour guide. It drags you through …
Creativity Isn’t a Pimple—Stop Trying to Pop It
Ever tried to force a good idea? Sat there, squeezing your brain, hoping something brilliant oozes out? Yeah, doesn’t work. Creativity isn’t a pimple. You don’t have to pop it. The harder you push, the worse it gets. You sit, you struggle, you overthink—until all you have is frustration and maybe a metaphorical scar. Great ideas show up when they’re ready. Not when you chase them down with a flashlight. Some of the best thoughts come when you’re in the shower, out on a walk, or doing something completely unrelated. So, stop treating …
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