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The Things That Mattered (And The Things That Never Did)

I spent my 20s running. Running toward something I couldn't quite name, chasing the version of myself I thought I was supposed to become. I wanted to look like I had it together, like I belonged, like I was important. And then one day, somewhere between exhaustion and self-reflection, I realized—I was running in the wrong direction. Here’s what I wish I knew sooner. 1. You’re Not As Important As You Think (And That’s A Good Thing) For years, I obsessed over what people thought of me. Every mistake felt monumental, every judgment carved …

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The Hardest Road Leads Home

There’s a kind of loneliness that doesn’t come from being alone. It comes from being surrounded by people and still feeling like something essential is missing—like you've stepped out of your own life and left the real you behind. I didn’t notice it at first. It snuck up on me in the small ways. Saying yes when I meant no. Laughing at things that weren’t funny. Shrinking myself to fit into rooms where I never truly belonged. It was easier to be who people expected me to be than to risk being seen for who I actually was. Until one day, I …

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The Wilderness Had a Clarity That Included Me

There are things I’ve done that I’m not proud of. Not because they were wrong in some universal, moral sense, but because I did them knowing I shouldn’t. I did them because I wanted to. Because, in that moment, it felt like the only thing to do. And for years, I carried the weight of that, believing that regret was a form of penance, that self-recrimination was the price of redemption. But what if I never needed redemption in the first place? What if the things I thought I needed to atone for were just stepping stones to where I am now? What …

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The Trap of Playing It Safe

We like to think of ourselves as rational beings. We make decisions based on facts, weigh pros and cons, and navigate life with a clear head. But let’s be honest—most of the time, we’re just reacting. And lately, those reactions are looking more and more like retreat. We used to be curious. We used to explore, whether it was wandering through new places, striking up conversations with strangers, or questioning what we thought we knew. Now, we huddle. We cling to what we know, filter out what challenges us, and convince ourselves that staying …

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The Mountains We Climb

Success isn’t about brute force. Push harder, hustle more, never back down—that was my formula. It worked until it didn’t. Trekking broke that illusion. You can grind your way up a mountain, but if you ignore the signs—the shifting weather, the thin air, the exhaustion settling deep in your bones—you won’t make it. Or worse, you’ll make it and regret it. Real success isn’t about suffering for the sake of it. It’s about knowing when to push and when to pause. I’ve gotten it wrong plenty of times. Forced my way through when I should have …

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The Goals You Should Fear More Than Failure

For years, I treated goal-setting like a high-stakes game. Pick a target, charge ahead, and deal with the fallout later. And for a while, it worked—until I started achieving my goals and realizing they came at a cost I hadn’t accounted for. That’s where Non-Negotiables come in. They aren’t just guardrails; they’re the invisible lines I refuse to cross. The things that, if lost, would make any achievement feel hollow. Like the time I was so focused on hitting a major career milestone that I ignored the creeping exhaustion. My workouts? …

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The Privilege No One Talks About

I used to think privilege was about money, connections, or where you were born. But over the years, I’ve realized there’s a kind of privilege that’s just as powerful, yet rarely acknowledged: mindset and perspective privilege. Some people grow up with a mindset that failure is just a stepping stone. I remember a childhood friend who always saw failures as experiments—whether it was a failed school project or losing a game, he simply adjusted and tried again. He saw obstacles as challenges, not roadblocks. He believed his efforts would lead …

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The Power of Not Knowing

People think knowing is the first step to figuring things out. It’s not. Not knowing is. Curiosity only exists in the gaps. Questions only arise when answers don’t. If you already “know,” you stop looking, stop asking, stop discovering. But when you admit you don’t know, you open the door to everything that follows. The smartest people aren’t the ones with all the answers. They’re the ones who keep asking better questions. So don’t rush to know. Sit with the uncertainty. That’s where the real learning begins. …

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