We spend so much time building work resumes—those lists of jobs, skills, and achievements we hope will impress someone. But when I heard about the idea of a life resume, something clicked. It’s a record of the moments, experiences, and challenges that shape who we are. It’s the story we tell about the life we’ve lived. Here’s what I’ve realized about crafting a life that feels full and meaningful: Treat Everyone Like They Matter—Because They Do The people in your life today could play a big role in your future. The funny thing is, …
Why the Way We See Ourselves (and Everything Else) Matters More Than We Think
A while back, I walked into a sleek electronics showroom and found myself mesmerized by one particular device. There were plenty of similar gadgets with similar functions, but this one seemed more valuable—almost like a luxury piece on display. It sat alone, perfectly lit, plenty of space around it, and every subtle detail signaled that this thing was special. I left thinking the device itself was extraordinary, but now I realize it was the frame around it doing most of the heavy lifting. That experience never left my mind because it taught …
When Money Stops Making Sense
In my 20s, my life was a whirlwind of work and ambition. I thrived in early-stage startups, earning just enough to save, pay off loans, and create a thin layer of financial security. The paychecks weren’t glamorous, but they weren’t the point. My world revolved around learning and growth, and I was happy. All my friends were the same—driven, workaholic, content. Life felt like an endless sprint, but we believed we were heading toward something meaningful. Then the pandemic hit. Isolation has a strange way of amplifying questions you’ve …
Living Fully: Trust, Values, Relationships, and a Dash of Fun
Life has this fascinating way of teaching lessons when you least expect them—like during a trek, where every misstep can feel like a metaphor. I’ve spent hours scaling trails, pondering what makes a life worth living. The truth I keep circling back to is simple: trust, values, meaningful relationships, and enjoying life are the foundation. It sounds lofty, but these ideas are more connected than they first appear. Trust: The Fragile Bridge We Build Trust is tricky. You can lose it in two ways: when someone turns out to be inept, or when …
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Owning Your Scars: Rewriting Your Life with Grit and Grace
There’s a powerful truth in realizing that we’re never defined by our past, but rather by how we choose to live from this moment forward. It’s easy to get stuck in old memories, clinging to what was or what could have been. Memories can be a double-edged sword. They offer perspective, joy, and comfort during tough times, but they can also strangle you if you let them, holding you captive to someone else’s perception of who you are. We all have scars. Life has a way of throwing punches that leave us marked, but it’s those very scars that …
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Cherished Moments
I’ve gathered a few moments, scattered through time, and tucked them safely in my heart. Some are filled with love and warmth, others with the quiet of dull days. There are emotions that I’ve carefully collected, a handful of them, and even those tears—small and delicate, like pearls—are kept in a special place. These memories are stored in a little box, kept close. I’ve promised myself that in those quiet moments of solitude, I’ll pull them out, sift through them, and remember. I’ll relive those moments, especially the ones that seemed to …
The Rollercoaster of Love
Have you ever felt like love just slips right through your fingers? It’s a strange journey. You find yourself falling out of love, and suddenly it feels like both of you are lost. It’s not just one person feeling off; it’s like we’re both navigating through life, weighed down by emotions we can’t quite understand. Those little moments that once brought joy now seem heavy, like carrying a backpack full of rocks. I often wonder about the idea of perfect love. What if it turns out to be more painful than beautiful? Every interaction can feel …
What Can You Possibly Know?
Sometimes, it feels like no one really understands me. You might say you know me, but what does that really mean? You can’t feel the tightness in my chest when I think about the dreams I’ve let slip away. You don’t hear the whispers of my thoughts late at night as I replay old conversations, wishing I had spoken up or shared more. You might think you understand me, but can you sense the heaviness I carry when I’m surrounded by people yet feel completely alone? I often find comfort in writing my thoughts in a journal, not because I think …