We spend so much time building work resumes—those lists of jobs, skills, and achievements we hope will impress someone. But when I heard about the idea of a life resume, something clicked. It’s a record of the moments, experiences, and challenges that shape who we are. It’s the story we tell about the life we’ve lived.
Here’s what I’ve realized about crafting a life that feels full and meaningful:
Treat Everyone Like They Matter—Because They Do
The people in your life today could play a big role in your future. The funny thing is, you never know who it will be. A casual connection now might be someone you reconnect with years later in a way that changes everything.
The key is simple: treat everyone with kindness and respect. Relationships are built on small moments. A kind word, a thoughtful gesture, or even just keeping in touch can make all the difference. These connections have a way of coming back when you least expect them.
You Don’t Need to Know Everything to Start
It’s easy to feel stuck because you don’t feel ready. But waiting for the “right” time can keep you from doing anything at all. The truth? You don’t need to have it all figured out. Take the first step and trust that you’ll figure out the rest along the way.
This mindset isn’t about being reckless. It’s about realizing that action leads to learning, and learning leads to progress. Sitting on the sidelines, waiting to feel ready, doesn’t.
Be Curious and Stay in Touch
People who inspire or challenge you are worth keeping in your life. Staying connected doesn’t take much—a quick note or a meaningful thank-you goes a long way. Small efforts like these leave a lasting impression, and over time, they build relationships that matter.
Hard Things Make Life Better
It’s easy to stick to what feels comfortable. But the moments that change us are rarely the easy ones. Doing something challenging—whether it’s learning a new skill, taking a leap of faith, or pushing yourself physically—teaches you resilience. It also proves to yourself that you can handle more than you think.
Time Is the Most Precious Thing
Here’s a thought that stopped me: if I see someone twice a year and they only have 10 years left, that’s just 20 more times we’ll meet. Thinking this way made me realize how much I’ve been taking for granted. It’s not how many years we have—it’s how we spend the time within them.
This perspective has made me more intentional. I’ve started prioritizing the people and experiences that matter most. When I think about my life, I don’t want it filled with “someday” plans or regrets about time wasted.
Simplicity Brings Clarity
Life feels chaotic when we’re juggling too many things. We waste so much energy worrying, overthinking, and focusing on things that don’t actually matter. When I strip away the unnecessary distractions, I have more time and energy for the things I truly care about.
What Makes a Life Resume?
Your life resume isn’t just a list of big, flashy moments. It’s about growth. It’s about the risks you took, the people you connected with, and the way you pushed yourself to live fully. It’s the story you’ll look back on and share with pride.
So, here’s the question I’ve been asking myself: what do I want to add to my life resume? It’s helped me focus on doing things that matter, spending time with people I care about, and tackling challenges that make me grow.
What’s on yours? And what will you add next?
Such a beautiful concept and write-up!