Losing people in your life can bring the preciousness of time into sharp focus. It becomes even more evident that life is short, and the people who really matter to you are the ones you want to invest in. I believe that life is so much about our relationships, and the truly meaningful lessons we learn come from love and the people closest to us. We love them unconditionally, and that love is what truly matters.
I’ve realized that having a tight-knit circle of people I can trust and depend on is invaluable. Just because everyone knows who I am doesn’t mean everyone is my friend. It’s the deep, meaningful connections that count. Some people take a long time to understand this, but recognizing it in the midst of personal growth is powerful.
When you lose someone, it’s incredibly hard. Sitting at the bedside, watching someone in their last days, taking their last breath—it’s heart-wrenching. But in those moments, what’s most important to that person is who’s there with them. It’s not about material possessions or achievements; it’s about the people by their side. Did they make an impact on the world? Did their loved ones know they were cherished? The lasting impressions are created by love and the way we treat people.
- Ask yourself: who are the most important people in my life, and am I investing in them?
- When was the last time I told them how precious they are to me?
- When did I set aside my own agenda to just sit and listen to a friend or spend time with someone I love?
The lasting impressions are created by love and the way we treat people.
Aging parents and grandparents bring this reality even closer. Their wisdom and presence remind us of the importance of time and relationships. It’s crucial to cherish these moments, to learn from them, and to ensure they feel loved and valued.
We weren’t meant to go through life alone. Meaningful, impactful relationships are the essence of our lives. So, take a moment to reflect on your relationships, prioritize the people who matter, and make sure they know they are loved. The way we make others feel is what truly lasts.
Babita Chandak says
Very well said vasu..Few lines are so meaningful .I wish more and more people read this and try to really hold the warmth of every relationship.love you baccha .
vasudha says
Thanks, maa.