Why can't he just do this? ⠀Only if she listened to me !! ⠀How hard is it for him to make a little adjustment? No matter what I do, she will always complain. Do any of these phrases sound familiar?We all know that we can’t control other people's reactions and that it is unfair to have unspoken expectations from others. Moreover, we often hope that they will read your mind or understand the subtle hints. Yet, we catch ourselves stuck in this rut subconsciously almost on a daily basis. Why is it that smart people like ourselves keep …