1. Incurable Optimist: Living with Illness and Chronic Hope
This was such an incredible memoir of a college-going girl – Jennifer who learns that she has a chronic autoimmune condition where her kidneys are failing. What follows is the next two decades of her battle with this disease, ranging from scans, biopsies, dialysis, and multiple transplant surgeries, and how all of this impacted her and her family.
With the constant uncertainty of getting a kidney transplant, infections, motherhood, staying in hospital for months, uncertain future and so much more – it’s incredible how she maintained such optimism and strength throughout. And how despite her sickness, she built her dream life – a supportive partner, a loving daughter, a supportive circle of family and friends, fulfilling work, a lovely home, and an adorable dog.
Her tenacity to live and courage is beyond words. I cannot even begin to imagine what it is like to lose organs and hang on to the hope of getting the right donor match.
This is a tale of quiet heroism, told modestly. It gives a first-hand perspective on living with a life-threatening illness and why hope is so important. It teaches us how to live life to the fullest no matter how shitty the circumstances are. It will help you to find the silver lining in life.
2. An Olive Grove at the Edge of the World
When non-fiction feels like fiction. Could not put this book down! The trials and tribulations of a gay couple who moved from America to New Zealand, and bought a run-down olive grove. A warm and humorous look into the adventure of living and adapting to rural life you know nothing about. The unconditional love and support of the locals who never waited for the couple to ask for help. And so many secret recipes. Jared is a fantastic storyteller and truly has a gift for telling it how it is and with heart. It made me smile often. Definitely inspired me to live a bit more adventurously.
3. Two More Years
This is a tale of Elisa Stilson’s battle with stage 4 melanoma. The story kicks off with the doc dropping a bomb: “Two more years.” That’s all you’ve got.
From tight foam treatments to the brutal chemo side effects and exhausting surgeries, Elisa lays it bare. But here’s the kicker—she faces it all with guts, humor, and faith, teaching us it’s not all about the illness. It’s about hope, family, and love.
The book’s like a patchwork quilt, weaving Elisa’s experiences—like playing the violin in the hospital lobby or her husband, Mike, helping her through the brain radiation, or even strangers sending gifts to her kids. Emotions go wild—from gratitude to impatience to love. Each story is a journey, where she fights frustration, embraces compassion, and limits herself to just one grumble a day.
Elisa’s got more than one battle. There’s the fight to get back her daughter who has moved out, a spiritual journey full of mysterious encounters, and her journey with her husband Mike – her rock through it all. In many ways, it’s also their love story.
She decided to battle on and not be a victim. Her determination, courage, and hope are all very inspirational. She never lost sight of what other people around her are facing. Her fake tattoo read “Always More” meaning there is always more to people’s stories than you might guess and there is always more to you. When she can’t attend her son’s party, she takes fun selfies in a hospital gown with a full-on smile and fake lashes. Sharing love, life, and moments that really count. This is a memoir that shouts, “Hey, life, I’m taking you back!” right from the chemo chair, this is it.
Oh, and here’s Elisa’s nugget of wisdom: “I’m really living, but man, I wish I’d done more when I was fit as a fiddle.”
This book is like sitting down with a friend for a real heart-to-heart—no filters, just life laid bare. It’s inspiring, and a little tough, but a big reminder to live each moment like it’s the only one you’ve got.
Would you live differently if you learned you had only two more years?
4. Life’s Too Short to Go So F*cking Slow
Life’s Too Short to Go So F*cking Slow by Susan Lacke is an inspiring memoir highlighting the transformative power of friendship, resilience, and pursuing passions.
Susan Lacke, The author and protagonist of the memoir, undergoes a profound transformation from a self-described “fuck-up” to a determined athlete. Her journey of self-discovery is at the heart of the narrative.
Carlos Nunez, Lacke’s boss-turned-mentor, plays a pivotal role in her life. His unwavering support, tough love, and belief in Lacke’s potential help her to overcome obstacles and achieve her goals.
Through Susan’s journey from a struggling college professor to a thriving athlete, guided by her mentor Carlos, readers witness the importance of perseverance and the impact of meaningful connections on personal growth.
Like Susan, I’ve never understood why people run for fun. And I was definitely not ‘those people’ nor did I ever wish to be one. Now, when embarking on challenging treks or solo travels, I can draw on Susan’s determination and Carlos’s support to overcome obstacles and embrace new experiences.
5 key takeaways:
- Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth and self-discovery.
- Surround yourself with supportive mentors and friends who believe in your potential.
- Perseverance and resilience are key to overcoming obstacles and achieving success.
- Cherish meaningful connections and nurture supportive relationships in both personal and professional life.
- Pursue passions with determination and enthusiasm, knowing that every step forward is a victory worth celebrating.
This book is not at all what I thought it would be. Was a very quick read and made me emotional. It’s awesome when you meet someone who gives you the drive to be a better version of yourself.
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